IT MUCH
im working in an IT environment. Everyday I get to hear IP,bugs,errors and awhole lot more. And i think im kind of adopting this environment to my personal life. how? imagine, i can check anyone especially my BF; their logs in YM, if they are currently on a stealth mode, and awhole lot more that i don’t want to disclose anymore. haha. okay, praning much? hnoope. I guess sometimes the lack of trust pushes me to do these things. Before, I was too trusting.. until I learned better and it taught me an essential lesson; trust your intuition. If you ever feel something is odd don’t hesitate to check to verify your intuition. If there’s something I learn from the IT it’s about verifying things so when an error occurs you’ll be able to correct it before it becomes null. So for me learning something wrong like for example in my boyfie, if I discover something bad, it doesn’t necessarily mean I have to automatically break up with him. there’s the fixing process. Errors are seen to be corrected.
So for me, checking him once in awhile or anyone for that matter, doesn’t automatically means you mistrust that certain person or even if it is about trust issues, doesn’t matter. It’s just that sometimes you just got brave enough to quest for something that you feel is not right. for your own peace of mind. and oh! of course don’t use your knowledge just for the sake of messing other people’s life. You’ll never know when the tables are turn and your in their position.
